1.14.2015

The {Re}Wedding 9.10.11

Re-wedding.

ok so I admit…..this is 4 years after I started this Re-Wedding Blog. oops- I have no defense other then, life happened. But oh, has it been good! Jesus has been faithful in His promises and His partnership in this marriage that He put back together. More on that to come but for now I will finnish the Re-Wedding story.

  The excitement of putting together all the details that we had been collecting and planning for months was so much fun! All the details being so loving lovingly placed by friends who love us well. We had dear friends who stayed well into the night covering every window with Sears and Roebuck pages and Antique Silver being laid out to be filled with flowers.  The Flower adventure itself was a treat! The days leading up to the wedding were a frenzy of Hydrangea collecting. We were knocking on peoples doors when they had a bush out front and telling the story of our Re-Wedding. People were so gracious to just let us have what we wanted. We trucked over to a house and climbed their wooded hillside to collect flowers. My fun loving adventure seeking friend and I stumbled across an abandoned office complex who had landscaped the parking  lots with Hydrangea bushes- so we took them all!! In all there were 4 van loads of flowers we collected for the wedding. They were beautiful and free and we got to spread the word about the amazing work Jesus had done to heal a marriage and give us a new life.  
   The tables and chairs came and it all started feeling so real! oh-The love that was poured on me when I realized the amount of tablecloths that needed to be ironed and the women showed up- irons and boards in hand to press them so they would be perfect for our day. There was a late night bamboo harvest that had to happen when we needed to  somehow hang all the string lights- the bamboo was literally twice as long as the van and it hung out the open trunk door as we drove it the 2 miles it needed to travel. In our still, silent valley you could hear it coming the whole way, I was told- we were laughing too hard to notice.  
  I had finished sewing Adi's maid of honor dress 3 nights before the wedding. We were both almost in tears when we saw that somewhere along the line I had done something really  wrong- it was just wonkey, something was off in a big way and I couldn't get it to be right. Finally because Adi is the best teenage daughter you could ask for she said  " its fine mom, I will look weird  but your's is perfect and thats what counts". When I look at the pictures from that day and see my beautiful daughter my heart always remembers the miracle that happened- when she got dressed for the wedding that day, the dress fit PERFECTLY. I am telling you- something changed in that dress!  In the busyness of the day we just stopped and looked at what Jesus had done; there was no other explanation - He had altered her dress. He is in all the details- they are important to Him, not that the dress had to be perfect for Him, but for the heart of His teenage daughter- He altered it. 

  The morning of the Wedding was busy with decorating the reception - there were so many things that we had planned and envisioned and it was so much fun laying them all out and piecing them all together. Friends were there loving us and laughing with us. One friend so kindly noticed that Teagen really needed a haircut and we had somehow missed that fact so she grabbed him and took him to get cleaned up- she asked me specifically how long and what style he was to have and she stood next to him as the lady cut it- guarding my vision and making sure that he didn't end up with one of "those" haircuts. Because we all know, like school picture day, if you run in for last minute haircuts thats when you are going to come out with a dorky too short or crooked bangs. But not Teagen, he got the perfect cut that day. I know its trite and obviously any picture of my kids is precious- but being the visual perfectionist I am, his hair being right was a sweet addition to my perfect day.
  So one other place that almost got over looked in the busyness was- the Church! Around 2 ( the wedding started at 5) Micah looked at me decorating tables and arranging flowers and he said  "go home! you have to go get ready- you haven't even showered yet!" So I started home- but between the reception barn and my house is the church- with everything piled at the door ready to be taken on and used to decorate. Oops. So Standing in the parking lot ready to get in high gear and decorate ( quickly- since I was supposed to be in the shower by now) my new neighbor's mom pulled up. She was literally a God send. (We have a beautiful tale about how God has brought our families together, I'll tell another day) But In case you havent realized it by now- I am kinda a visual control freak, not to mention just how much I have loved being the one who got to make and design and create all the details of this day - and since I literally had a dream about what the church would look like before we even knew it was going to be in this church, letting someone else decorate the main place of the whole wedding was not in my plan. But Jesus had my back. I had not at that point spent too much time with her, as our families had just recently met, but I knew enough to know that she and Jesus love to create art together. So, I took the unexpected gift and went home to shower and do all the stuff a girl does to walk down the isle.        
   As you will see, Jesus took the dream He gave me and he put it in her hands and she decorated the church EXACTLY how I would have- without any instruction and just a pile of supplies. The simple beauty of the church was perfectly accented with the details I had left in a pile. It was perfect, and an extra special gift and blessing from Jesus through my sweet friend.

 From that point on the day was documented by our sweet photographer Kristin Sweeting at www.kristinsweeting.com and since I just looked again through our Re-Wedding album and it tells the story of the day so perfectly I will just put a slideshow of that in now.  The only word that can sorta sum up the day is "Perfect!". Everything was. The weather was beautiful, the details all came together, our friends devoted their hands and their hearts to us and helped us create the perfect environment to celebrate the amazing work Jesus has done in our life and in our marriage. . . everything about the {re}wedding was detail oriented and the whole thing came together to celebrate HIM so you get a slide show with 100 pictures where you can walk through the whole day with us. Hope you enjoy the pictures as much as we do. It is the visual reproduction of the miracle that Jesus has done in our life and with our marriage.

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The making of the {Re}Wedding (pt 3) THE CAKE!!

                                                            The Cake was AMAZING!!!

  So, I already mentioned that Micah and I agreed that my creative powers stopped at baking the cake. Really, at cooking anything- but luckily thats where his super powers kick in so we don't all starve in our daily life. Diane Thompson of The Vintage Apron stepped in to bless us with an amazingly YUMMY cake. Visit her Fb page at http://www.facebook.com/pages/The-Vintage-Apron/173509756043869



  The part of the cake that I wanted to do was the decorations. I had seen some beautiful sugar flowers on a cake in a magazine so I bought all the supplies and watched some videos online and went to work. I grabbed my girl Leilani to help me with this big job.





 We made tons of little hydrangea flowers out of gum paste and colored them with this really cool edible powder. Once we got the hang of the shaping and the blending it was so much fun. After about 20 hours of little flower making, we were done...and a little tired of little flowers so we moved on to the cake topper.



These were our grandparents pocket watches. His Grandmother's on the left and my Grandfather's on the right. We nestled them into a bed of moss and propped them up with gears and coo coo clock parts. 
                                    (Thus representing generations off coo coos? Probably.)






We used my Great Grandfathers Civil War sword to cut the cake.



  Almost the first detail that I thought of for the wedding happened while walking with Micah in New Orleans. I thought "Lavender Pear!" that sounds amazing- thats what I want for the wedding cake. We also decided to make that the wedding punch for the reception. So we came up with a drink called Fizzy Pear- ginger ale, pear nectar and lavender...yummm



 
       I knew I would love it for the cake,  but Micah wanted chocolate.  Diane Thompson of The Vintage Apron stepped in to save the day. Diane, being wonderful- did both and blessed us with an amazingly YUMMY cake. Visit her Fb page at http://www.facebook.com/pages/The-Vintage-Apron/173509756043869  For the top layer of the cake she made a gluten free, dairy free, egg free, full flavor Lavender Pear for me. The rest of the cake was a deep chocolate espresso ( she used our favorite- Lavazza espresso). Both flavors were wonderful, I have the most vivid memory of the heavenly flavor from the next morning, when Micah and I went back to the reception site to have our morning coffee and I ate the rest of my cake for breakfast. The perfect stillness of the morning after.... snuggling on the porch, drinking coffee, looking over the misty pond, eating cake and soaking in the perfection of it all. That is one of the dearest memories we have of our wedding weekend.

3.12.2012

The Making of the {Re}Wedding (pt 2) Paper Bouquet and decor

  Yes I know its been 6 moths since the {Re}Wedding and I still dont have any pictures of the actual day... I'm getting there. We've been so busy getting used to married life :o) just kidding- sort of. Things have been different since the {re}wedding: we knew we had gotten to a really great place within our marriage to even be able to have the {re}wedding and truly celebrate the work Jesus had done, but we didnt realized that it would really mark a new beginning. We have truly had a renewed marriage since that day. I love that Jesus knew it was going to be this good- eventually. We have gone to a deeper level of partnership, friendship and love. Our life and marriage has truly been {re}made and it is amazing the difference it makes!
  So, back to the preparations, I am going to try and keep the rest of the prep post quick (meaning I will type less and show more pics- its still gonna be a long post) so I can get on to posting about the big day! 

The next thing I made was Adi's bouquet-
 I wanted it to reflect her (steadfast and true) so I made the flowers out of paper:
                                         Old sheet music, photocopied bible and old book pages.

 These flowers are made from stiffened lace that my Great Grandmother made.
(cut flowers out of lace and soaked them in white glue)

Added old typewriter keys that spelled her name, a clockface and some small broaches.

and filled the beaker with moss: which she veto'd (?) so I refilled with coffee beans.


Teagen the Ring Boy


He carried the rings in a hollowed out pocket watch that we made together.

next,

I went on a mad hunt for lamp stands- I scored the motherload at Buried Treasures in Fairview!


Painted them all black.



to be used at the church and the reception.
(photo spoiler- {Re}Wedding peek)

ok - thats it for today. 
Hopefully only 2 more "making of" till the {Re}Wedding Pictures!
just being honest- I had sooo much fun in the "making of"....


11.05.2011

The making of the {Re}Wedding (pt 1) Bouquet and Dress

 OK so even tho I know this {re}wedding is not JUST about me getting free reign to be fully creative on many levels and in all the details, it kinda has been at the same time. These last few months of preparing for our day has been a sea of creativity. When I get to visit that sea I always ride in Jesus's boat. I feel closest to  Him when I am sailing in His creative spirit. I have felt Him with me the whole time: giving me a vision of what it was going to become, getting excited with me, going before me to provide the details and illuminating the places where I get to see Him. He speaks to me so often in a metaphoric tongue to reveal Himself in the tapestry. The song He keeps singing me is one of "Old made new, broken made beautiful...." This is the story of our marriage, of our lives and of anyone's life who choses to give it to Him.

 Of corse the plan was to blog about all of this as it was happening, leading up to the {re}wedding, but as I was in that sea, I couldnt really write about it. Looking back I know I am apt to miss some details so I pray He will remind me. I will wait to write about the actual {re}wedding except to say it was PERFECT. For now I will try and stay focused on the preparations that I so enjoyed.


                THE MAKING OF THE {RE}WEDDING................

 The first thing I knew about this {re}wedding was that  was going to do all the details myself. I read lots of things saying to do exactly the opposite, "it would be too much, I would have had to have done this before, I would end up not enjoying myself and stressing myself out way more then not..." I knew that was not true for me. I loved it all. The only times I was a little stressed was when I had to co-ordinate with other people. Calling the table rental place a week before to confirm delivery time was more stressful to me then the making of my gown from 100yr old handmade lace. This is who I am. I am less stressed the more creative I am able to be- so creating every detail was thrilling and relaxing for me. And it blessed me so much to see Micah have all faith in me that that was the case. We both, however, agreed that my grace stopped at actually baking the cake. I could make the decorations for the cake, but we left the yumminess to a professional. He never questioned all I put on my plate, or my vision or my ability to pull it off. Please, however do not read this as "nobody helped me at all" that is so FAR from the truth. The amount of hands and hearts that poured into our day was truly humbling and Christ-like. That will be its own post. For now I will reminisce on the making.....

  My bouquet was the first thing I made. I went on a mad frenzy of brooch hunting from January- July, finding beautiful pieces all in clear rhinestone.





As the date came closer and my hands were picking up pace Micah really encouraged me to make my dress sooner rather then later ( as in the night before- which he knew I was liable to do).
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The dress! the dress! hee-hee-hee the dress!
    At first I thought I might be able to wear my moms wedding dress, it had a beautiful shape and classic style and it would be a sweet family heirloom. She told me she thought it was in the attic, but then I though I remembered that we donated it to a bridal project when I was in Middle school after I tried it on and it was already too small for me.  I tried to find it anyway, but even that morning I knew I wasnt going to find it.  The night before I had a dream and that morning and I knew it was my dress I was dreaming about.
  In my dream I was stepping off of the altar area of a church ( the church had wooden beams and light pouring in)  and my vision zoomed in onto the dress I was wearing, mostly the shoulder and side. It was a quick look and all I could make out was that it was a crochet type fabric and it was cream colored. It was not my moms dress, but I knew in my dream that it was my dress, I also knew for sure that I wouldnt find her's in the attic.
  What I did find at moms house was a beautiful embroidered table cloth that had been my paternal grandmothers; and it had been her Aunts before that. It is so beautiful, a lovely linen with beautiful hand embroidery. I pulled out my mother's mother's hope chest and held out her hand tatted (sorta like crochet but its a  knotting technique that the women in my moms family had done for years) table cloth and what I saw was the makings of my dress!
  Now, you would think that cutting into 100 year old lace would be a nerve wracking thing, but it wasn't. The whole time I was making the dress I had such peace and every part of it just came together. I had the profound realization at one point, that, Jesus knew 100 years ago when this fabric was being made that it would one day be my wedding dress. And I could feel His excitement of seeing it happen. We made this dress together for my Re-Wedding but, He made this dress over generations. I didn't use a pattern and I just kept asking  "cut here Lord?" and He said yes or no. We went on like that until it was done. I remember picking up a 'scrap' piece to hold up and eye where the sleeves might be and the piece was a perfect fit! And there was another one exactly like it on the floor!  The embroidery on the linen fabric created perfectly spaced lines and interrogate designs that looked like they were done after the dress was made, to be that perfect.The lace layer was not attached to the bottom so that at the reception I could take the top off and have an evening dress to wear. I used my grandmothers brooch at the waist and I took the brooches that were left over from making my bouquet and made a necklace to wear at the reception. I will be forever in awe of this "supernatural" wedding dress. I hope it will be used by future generations of my family.




















I was- and am, overwhelmed by His greatness yet again.



8.21.2011

{Re}Engagement Photo Shoot- The Preservation Station

 OK so here is the first tangible thing I can post about the {Re}Wedding......lots of details to come but first,
 our {Re}Engagement Pictures!
 We have hired Kristin Sweeting  (www.kristinsweeting.com) to photograph all things {Re}Wedding.

                   These were taken at our favorite store ~ The Preservation Station in Nashville.